Kristian has experienced more instability than many people face in a lifetime.
Yet despite everything he's endured, he's discovering that his past doesn't have to define his future.
Kristian was just 6 years old when he was removed from his mother's care and entered foster care. A few years later, he was adopted by one of his mom's friends, giving him hope for a fresh start. But at age 10, he was removed once again. The years that followed were filled with uncertainty as he moved between residential placements, Lincoln Hills, and life on the streets of Milwaukee.
Looking back, Kristian is honest about what brought him back to Rawhide after first attending in 2023. “My behavior, anger, and bad decisions led me here,” he said. When Kristian returned to Rawhide in April 2026, something was different. “I started taking life more seriously.”
He found encouragement in the people around him, especially teachers like Mr. Nolan and Mr. Bruce. “When I'm in a bad mood, they always find a way to make me happy,” Kristian said. “Especially Mr. Nolan.” He also surprised himself by discovering a love for school, especially math.
Just four months after returning to Rawhide, Kristian's dedication and personal growth earned him Student of the Month. “I think it was my maturity and the growth I've shown. I’m working hard at my program,” he said.
Outside the classroom, Kristian embraced experiences that helped him build confidence. He worked at Rawhide's community fish fries, greeting guests and taking orders, explored new places through off-campus outings, and looked forward to starting the behavioral job training culinary class. Whether playing basketball with classmates or challenging Mr. Nolan to a one-on-one game, he has found moments of joy, connection, and belonging.
Therapy has also become an important part of his journey. Kristian says he appreciates the opportunity to slow down, reflect, and get his mind back on track. With the support of his therapist, Ms. Lauren, he's learning healthier ways to manage his emotions and make thoughtful decisions. “I've learned that everything doesn't need a response,” he said.
His greatest motivation is his twin sister, Kristina, who is waiting for her brother to come home. “I want to be here for her,” he said. As Kristian looks toward the future, he hopes to transition into independent living and continue building a life he can be proud of. The lesson he wants to carry with him is simple but powerful: knowing when to walk away rather than react.
He hopes others will remember him as a role model, a leader, and someone who chose to grow.
Kristian’s message to donors: “Thank you for giving me a second opportunity to come back to Rawhide.”
