JJ’s journey includes more than 16 foster homes and five residential programs. He’s seen a lot of places, but none left an impression like Rawhide. First arriving in 2021 and now back in 2024, he says this time is different. The fear and distrust he once felt toward staff have faded. He knows what to expect now, and he sees how much the Rawhide team genuinely cares. “At first, I didn’t like the staff and thought I was a criminal,” JJ said. “But this time, things have really changed.”
JJ values the bonds he’s built with staff who show up for him, peers who understand him, and mentors like Mr. Nolan, his former teacher, youth development specialist, and basketball coach.
That trust and support gave JJ room to grow. He’s discovering new talents and exploring what interests him, including the welding, automotive, and culinary behavioral job training classes. He’s also helped at the local Salvation Army and worked as a waiter at our annual fish fries. “I’m pretty comfortable talking to people,” he shared.
Therapy has also played a big role in JJ’s progress. With help from Ms. Tina, he's learning to manage the anger that once controlled him. Music and being active help too, and with his background on a farm, equine therapy came naturally. “My anger doesn’t control me anymore,” he said. “I’ve learned how to control it. I don’t let it overcome me.”
Beyond his accomplishments, JJ’s proudest qualities are who he is as a person. “I’m active and athletic—that’s my outlet. But I’m also kind and have a good heart,” he shared. His biggest motivation is his sisters, and he’s eager to return home and be there for them.
After graduation, JJ hopes to work on vehicles or do something active. No matter the path, he knows what would bring him true happiness: being with his family, doing what he loves, and being remembered as a kind, joyful, joking kid.
JJ’s message to donors: “I appreciate the time and effort you put in for us.”
